Find Your Joy

You’re forging your own relationship path. It’s exciting. It’s freeing.

It's the stuff of fantasies.

Except when it isn't. Like any relationship, D/s relationships can be confusing, overwhelming, and stressful. Unlike vanilla relationships, though, it's hard to know where to turn for support when you need it.

That’s where I come in. I offer coaching for individuals, pairs, and other relationship systems.

I can help with:

  • Exploring different types of D/s relationship models and roles

  • Building self-awareness about your own wants and needs

  • Talking to your partner(s) about changing interests

  • Combining poly/ENM dynamics with power dynamics

  • Communicating within your dynamic

  • Navigating different consent frameworks

  • Building trust and understanding red flags

  • Recovering from boundary crossings or violations

No matter where you are in your journey—learning how to start a D/s relationship or 20 years in—we can work through your concerns together. Let’s find your way back to your vision.

Coaching can help you with:

Exploring identity

Developing values

Setting goals for change

Improving communication skills

Learning to make the best decisions for yourself

Focusing on your present and future

Coaching is NOT for:

Working through trauma

Managing mental illness

Providing long-term support for ongoing life stressors

Focusing on your past experiences

Let’s Talk