About

There are few rules for what we do. And would they work for you anyway? Power dynamics give you the opportunity to fully explore what you want and need from others, to customize relationships according to your own desires, to invite new parts of yourself into your life.

We make our own rules. And while that can be exhilarating, it can also be scary. 

Hi, I’m Augustin. In addition to being a trained therapist (please note that coaching is not therapy), I have 20 years of living and learning in the community. Over many years of exploring these relationships and connecting with others doing the same, I’ve heard from folks who are struggling and wish they knew where to go for support (and I’ve been in that position too!).

I offer professional support from someone who is more than just aware or affirming, but who gets it on a deeper level. I’m not an expert on all the dynamics or kinks out there. But I love BDSM and kink partly because there are so many creative ways to build authentic and joyful relationships that meet our needs and are true to our desires. We all deserve this. How can I help you get there?

My values include:

  • Everyone, in every role, must be empowered

  • We need to talk about real-world power differentials, such as racism, sexism, ableism, and other -isms

  • Consent is the difference between power and abuse

  • Every identity deserves affirmation and respect

  • Sex work is work

  • My ongoing education is important

Services

I offer 50-minute sessions for individuals or 80-minute sessions for pairs or groups. Individual sessions are $200, and pair/group sessions are $275.

We will meet every week or every other week (I find that less than twice a month makes it hard to sustain continuity and forward progress). In our first session, we will talk about your goals and think about a timeline for our work together.

Let’s Talk